Is there something wrong with you if you are a normal middle-aged man who likes to wear sexy lingerie and what can you do to decrease this desire?

It's a form of cross-dressing. I read a study on men wearing women's undies or carrying women's undies in their suit pockets just to constantly feel the silky material. It also said that if you could strip down executives out in the business world at least 40% of them would be wearing women's panties to having panties in their pocket. While many men don't do this, some do, and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else then I wouldn't be too concerned. It's a private part of your life and just about everyone has some kinky little quirk about them. If it really bothers you then please see a psychologist about this just to put your mind at ease. There is no need to be embarrassed because a psychologist deals in behavioral therapy and can certainly help you to put your mind at rest. It's probably much more common than you think. Quite a number of men find the feel of lingerie erotic, so don't worry. Do you really need to 'decrease the desire'? After all, you're NOT doing any harm to anyone.