Is a man attracted to lesbians a narcissist?

No. I find men ocassionally attracted to me without knowing I'm gay, and they're attracted to my look, my personality, my independence, who I am. As for the men that are interested in me BECAUSE I'm gay, I might have to lean towards yes. I'm this exotic, challenging, unconquerable -thing- to them. I've read that narcissists are often attracted to people they find are a challenge to have or conquer.