How do you cope with your husband looking at other women?

As we used to say in the 60's: you can look, but don't touch. If he is just ogling women, he could reduce the behavior, but may never make it all the way. However, if he is flirting and taking other women out (and so on), then you need a new deal. He has to clean up his act, or you need to examine whether your life would be better without him in the picture. Excuses and promises are not acceptable: look for the actions. There ARE good men out there who know when they have a good one.