Why does Jody need to be in control of everyone around him?

Jody feels the need to be in control of those around him as a response to his own insecurities and fear of vulnerability. By asserting dominance, he seeks to create a sense of stability and predictability in his life. This desire for control often stems from a deeper struggle with his identity and the challenges he faces in navigating relationships, ultimately reflecting his inner turmoil and need for validation.