Is 14 weeks to early to tell boy or girl you heard they both look the same at 14 weeks?

Yes, it is too early to tell if your little one is a boy or girl. This website shows the genitals at various stages of development. The earliest gender can be determined is week 15 or 16. But a more accurate prediction of gender is between week 18-20. Of course, all of this depends on if your baby cooperates.

http://www.baby2see.com/gender/external_genitals.html