Why do men not call after a break up when they said they still love you?

Not all men do. Some men do for these reasons:

• He still may be in love with her, but there are problems in their relationship.
• He may not be sure he has made the right decision.
• He may just want to have his cake and eat it too .... he gets to date who he wants too, while he is contacting his ex to find out if you are dating.
• Even though he has broken up with his mate it's a territorial issue with some men and even if he doesn't love the ex girlfriend the same he doesn't want another man to have her.

These are but a few reasons, but, the woman is in control and can tell him to make up his mind or quit phoning. It's a risk, but he may come back or he may move on. Either way the woman wins. If he doesn't come back she can consider herself lucky that he freed her up to find some wonderful guy that truly does belong in her life.