You feel sexually aroused by men but want to have a loving relationship with a woman are you gay or not?

Men who are sexually aroused by other men are gay. If you are just entering puberty, however, you may be "going through a phase" and sexual attraction to women will emerge in a year or so. Being gay does not mean you cannot have loving relationships with women, but it does mean that those relationships will not be sexually fulfilling.

It is very important that you educate yourself about human sexuality. You will find that you have a fulfilling and meaningful future.