What do you do when your married and your in love with your husband and another man?

Answer The first thing you have to do is ask yourself what made you love the first man in your life? What is happening between the two of you that would make you fall in love with someone else? Is your husband mean to you or are you fickle. By fickle I mean you can't make up your mind as to whom you should give your love and there-fore you tend to fall in love easily and maybe for all the wrong reasons. Is this a sexual thing and you have the two things mixed up. One man gives you good sex and you think from that, that true love has happened, what will you do if another man comes along, fall in love with him too? Not wishing to be rude and trying to answer your question with no background is hard as there are always two sides to every story. Perhaps if you went and saw a professional you would get better answers than you will find on here. Good luck to you, and don't be too quick to jump into another relationship before you understand why you want to leave the one you are presently in.