Why should parents listen to their kids?

so your kids don't listen to you, they might think your going hard on them so if you don't go hard on them they will make life easier for you. I'm a 40 year old women named Janette and I have 3 kids that don't listen to me but once I learnt this way my life is been way easier for me and my husband. I hope that it will make life easier for you to.