How can you love someone who broke your heart?

That person will be gun-shy for a while. SO you have to prove to them youre not gonna hurt them. Love them 10x more. When you get your heart broken you are vulnerable in relationships because someone comes along and shows you the love you didnt get in the previous relationship. So... many heartbroken people put their guards up. You just have to knock it down little bits at a time. Be yourself, once they see you are consistent in your ways, they will begin to trust you. Dont come on too strong, just be yourself.