What are the signs a girl is playing you?

Here are some signs: She doesn't keep dates with you or phones to cancel them. She never discusses where she has been if she hasn't turned up. You don't see her for a week or more and she doesn't call. She flirts with other guys when she's with you. She's secretive and discusses very little with you as far as your relationship. She will not commit to a permanent relationship with you without explanation. She expects you to be there at her every whim. You find you are spending more money on her than you counted on. She doesn't answer your calls when you phone her. If she is with you and appears her thoughts are on someone else then it's probably true. Before you decide if this girl is playing you like a fish, I'd take the mature route and sit down with her alone and start communicating. Sometimes people have problems, or they've had a bad past and find it difficult to get into a serious relationship. She could simply just be a very independent young woman, could be studying hard, or, as you fear, she could be playing you. When you talk to her listen! So often men don't stop and listen to women and then wonder why women go off with another guy. If you think her reasons are validated then be mature enough to be patient and help her out (that is, if you love her enough.) Don't be egotistical enough to second-guess what this young woman is up too. Have that talk!