What if you like someone and they dont like you back?

find someone else. even if you did go out with him, realistically, would you end up marrying him? theres billions of guys out there, and surely one, if not a couple thousand of them, will hold a mutual attraction with you.

okay, here's the deal. He probably doesn't like you because you either don't know each other very well, or you have been friends for a while, and he doesn't want to mess that up. So, if you guys don't know each other really well, get to know him. Talk to him, and once you guys are familiar with each other, flirt some. He probably will get to like you, and if he doesn't, well then he doesn't know what he's missing. If you guys have been friends for a while, like more than a few years, I wouldn't mess that up. I hate to tell you, but don't become too obsessed. Just hang out with him more often, and when you do hang out, sit close to him, and become better friends. Remember, BEST FRIENDS LAST LONGER THAN BOYFRIENDS. So keep it real, and have fun with it.