Can you trust someone who has cheated twice?

Well often after your man has cheated, you think it might be your fault, you might have caused it, will he do it again? How can I ever forgive him and trust him. Will I have doubts and anxiety everytime he leaves the house? Will I be able to let it go? If I trust him again will he take advantage of my trust again and deceive me AGAIN?

I think every relationship is different, to trust him, you have to know him, but sometime to trust again is the hardest thing to do it feels like a grudge that cant be erased, I think the answer is deep inside your relationship and if you see he's repent, that he's making effort, I think he might deserve a little chance, but if he shows no remorse i dont see why he would deserve your love after soiling it.

If you do decide to forgive him, and to try to trust him again, you have to take your time, and you can even tell him that for that trust to come back it will take time. He has to proove himself more than he did when you first started dating. Trust is a lot of work. that's why it's so precious.

Sue H.

The secret of recovering from an affair is to understand why your partner cheated. The hard part is that most people who have been unfaithful find it hard to explain. This is partly because they fear upsetting their partner even more and partly because a lot of the drivers are unconscious. So think about what was happening in his life at the time? What problems did he have? What was happening in your life too? Next look at communication between the two of you, if your partner was feeling so unhappy or felt that your love was stale, why did he feel that he couldn't talk this over with you? Once you've began to understand what went wrong, you have a good idea if the relationship can be fixed or not and how to go about starting the journey back to trust.

Good Luck.

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