When referring to yourself and 1 other person you refer to yourself as I but when there are more then 2 people do you refer to yourself as me or I Me Sarah and Kim or Sarah Kim and I?

Well, honey, when you're talking about yourself and another person, you use "I." But when there are more than two people, you refer to yourself last, so it would be "Sarah, Kim, and I." Remember, it's all about proper grammar, darling.