Why women want to control husband?

There are certainly some women who want to have control of everything, but there are also men who want to have control of everything; this personality trait is not limited to one gender or produced by anyone's sexuality. Narcissistic personality types believe that they are more important than anyone else (or even that there isn't anyone who has any importance at all, other than themselves) and so naturally they feel that they should be in control. Who else?