Would a guy whos been hurt avoid relationship even if they like you?

There's a good chance that he would. Being denied by a girl or hurt in some other way may make him scared to date again. Going through breakups can be embarrassing and painful. Many people think that guys can just bounce right back, and some can. But there are a lot of guys who are at least a little sensitive. They certainly don't enjoy having their hearts broken. However, if you think that this guy may have feelings for you, and you do for him, take it slow. If you gain his trust, he'll be more willing to open up to you and take the next step to a real relationship.