How do you ask a girl out without anyone knowing?

If you have an interest in girls, it's no big deal to let your folks know. They may not be ready to let you go out alone on dates with girls - they may think you're not mature enough for that sort of thing - but you should let them know that you're growing up and are attracted to girls. it's no big deal, or at least is not as big a deal as you think it is.

Anyway, if you're young, it may be difficult to socialize with members of the opposite sex without the assistance - money, transportation, freedom - of mom and dad, so don't make it harder on yourself by keeping them in the dark. The last thing you want to do is get caught lying about where you're going or who you're hanging with.

Besides, if your girlfriend discovers that you haven't told you parents about her she may fell like your to ashamed of her to tell your parents about her or that you think your relationship won't last long enough to bother with getting parents involved.