Is it wrong for a 14 year old girl in 9th grade to date a 13 year old guy in 8th?

Well it depends I guess...my friends grandparents were 25 years apart so if your over 18 I guess you can. Ashley and Pete are like 7 or 8 years apart. age does not matter really when you become an adult. yea, some people look down on a 19 yr old dating a guy in his 40's, but in adult life, age is but a number. now, if you're in your teenage years (anything below 18) that's a bit wrong, especially because the older one (whether male or female) can be registered as a sex offender if caught. nothing sexual has to happen in order for this to happen either, so long as there's proof of belief that there is a romantic or intimate relation between a teenager and adult. my example is my ex girlfriend (who will remain anonymous) who is 15 and dated a 27 yr old. she says there's nothing wrong because her parents are 13 years apart, but i believe there is something wrong. her parents met when her mother was 25 and her father was 38, she's too young to be dating at that age and it's simply safer and healthier for someone in their teens to date someone they can see at school and in public without looks