Should you spank a child on their birthday?

It depends on the man. Some men like it, some men don't. Talk about it first. If he says it's okay, do it. If he says it's not okay, don't do it. I spank my boyfriend's butt on his birthday every year. And he spanks my butt on my birthday every year. We just do it for fun. On his last birthday, he was 41 years old so I spanked his butt 41 times. On my last birthday, I was 33 years old so he spanked my butt 33 times. We don't do it to hurt each other, we do it for fun.