How do you get rid of a stocker ex-boyfriend that you broak up with over a year agow?

I once had the same problem years ago in high school when both of us were about to go to college. I loved him so much until i found out that i wasnt the only person he had slept with. he was devastated that we were breaking up and for a whole year after that he rang me, called on me, invited me to dances and just wouldnt leave me alone. until i went to england to visit a middle school friend who had moved ages ago and she gave me a few nifty little tricks.

• First is the obvious one. talk to him and tell him youll never love him again, but say youre sorry. if you didnt - then he would be impressed at your anger - anger turns boys on. trust me. they love nothing better than seeing a girl angry! so calmly speak to him and explain what he did and why you cant be with him.

•Get another guy. this always makes them jealous - but this is tricky as it could go either way. your ex hopefully should see that you have moved on and love someone else now - but he could also get so jealous that he starts hurting your new bf - or he could miss you even more and not leave you alone.

• Ignore him completely. blank him out! this is simple and easy. he will eventually just give up and forget about you!

• tell another girl that he likes them - try and get them together and once hes with her - your done. sorted!

• and last is the riskiest one. only be prepared to do this if he really gets on your nerves and you cant live with it. humiliate yourself.

hope this hepls!