How do you get a mentally abusive boyfriend out of your house?

You don't -- you leave -- they never change and it gets worse. Trust me. You'll lose your sense of self and believe you are worthless. You'll waste the only life you have trying to please your spouse, which isn't possible. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and kindness, which is the foundation all marriages are built on. Educate yourself so you can help yourself.

Anwer2: You can live with him, but YOU CANNOT EVER MAKE HIM CHANGE! Stand up for yourself starting NOW. Tell your spouse you WILL NOT tolerate that behavior one more minute and you do not have to. Can't you see that you deserve to be treated like a beautiful, cherished person. It's not okay for you to let him treat you like this. God loves and cherishes you and so should your spouse. Find a good mental health physician and let the healing begin by leaving him behind in the dust.