Can you use Verizon sim card and put it in a t mobile phone and have the phone work for Verizon?

TMobile and Verizon are incompatible. As are every other two separate phone services.

The only way to use a TMobile sim card in a Verizon phone, is to get the Verizon "unlocked". You can do this at most mobile phone shops, but not all of them and most likely not an official Verizon or TMobile shop.

This will cost you.