What are some examples of refusal skills?

Here are some examples:

• Say "No" or "No, thanks," over and over if necessary.

• Call it what it is (cheating, stealing, etc.).

• Talk about something else.

• Ask questions.

• Give reasons.

• Use humor or sarcasm.

• Suggest doing something else.
• When all else fails to ignore the other child or children and walk away.

If you want the friendship of whoever you are refusing, you can keep the door open. For instance, "If you decide to do something safer, let me know."