How do you make women like anal?

If you have done everything by the book and she still is not into it that is just how it is. It's not everyone's cup of tea. It's easier to make men like it since they have their equivalence to the G-spot, the prostate, which can be reached and stimulated through the colon.

General tips on anal:

1. Relax. No, really. Although you can control your sphincter muscles to a certain degree, the muscles deeper in your rectum work reflexively, despite your best efforts to relax them. The best way to "loosen things up" is to let the relaxation start in your head. If you're lying there expecting pain, you can't help but tighten up.

2. Closely related to number 1: a drink (or 3) never hurt anyone. Many people require a bit of a buzz before they can take it up the rectum.

3. Use. TONS. Of. Lube. Your rectum doesn't lubricate itself, and when you're dealing with both (A), an extremely narrow passage, and (B), sensitive tissue that tears easily, you want to make sure to ease the dildo/penis/plug/carrot/insert phallic object here in there. You're going to think you're using too much, but you're not. Trust me. Keep pouring it on there.

4. Start small. You or your partner can start with a finger, then 2, to get you accustomed to the feeling, help you relax, and apply lube.

5. Go slow. This applies to every step in the process. You should be in charge of guiding him in. For example, once the head of his penis is in, take a few breaths, wait, and make sure you're okay. If you are, indicate to him that he can push further. Every inch or so, stop to make sure you're okay. Once he's all the way in, you can let him know if you're okay with full thrusts. Make sure that you maintain control and don't let him start pounding away. Once you're accustomed, that'll be fine-but not from the beginning.

6. Have some clitoral or vaginal stimulation (or both) going on at the same time. Not only will the entire experience be much more pleasurable, but placing some tactile emphasis on a place other than your rectum will serve to distract you from the pain (if you have any).

Don't use numbing creme because the pain tells you when something is wrong.