Well, to be honest, lets face it - girls are protective over their boyfriends. And so they should be too. But when another girl stands between you and your boyfriend, you're not going to let it go that easily! So, what do you do if there is a girl standing between your relationship? Well, here's some steps that I gave to my friend to help her not lose her cool.
1) Talk to him about his plans with her - cos if they're friends, they're bound to be doing things together, and organizing days out. Maybe ask if you could come along if you're not invited already, just to keep an eye on things and stand your ground.
2) Confront him about the matter if it comes up at all - when you invite him out and he says he already has plans with his her.
"what plans? you've been out with her already this week, and i haven't seen you"
that can work sometimes. Depending on what your boyfriend is like. But usually, a quick stare of those famous puppy eyes and you're in there! (:
3) Try to prevent arguments - don't get stressy about every little thing he does with her, he has to have some space. After all, even though jealousy can overcome you, you have to sometimes give him time alone. Although too much time by himself could make him feel isolated from you, and I don't think you'll be wanting that (:
on the other hand, he could miss you desperately and bring you lots of presents. But in case that doesn't happen for you, just stick with plan A. ;)
4) Try talking to her about it - If you know her personally and find it easy to talk to her about things, maybe try talking to her about her relationships and who she likes. If she tells you anything secret, make sure you use it wisely!
5) Try not to be spiteful to her - after all, it might not be as it seems. Usually you can tell if a girl is trying to worm herself in between a couple. So, if you see the signs, you do what you think is right. You can't follow instructions written by a 13 year old forever on Wiki.
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