Are there any games for PS3 that the main character is female that you can free roam on like gta and have different clothes options like gta?

Yes, there are several PS3 games featuring female protagonists that allow for free-roaming gameplay and customization options. Notable examples include "Saints Row: The Third," where players can create and customize their characters, including female avatars, and explore an open world. Another option is "Beyond: Two Souls," which follows a female lead, though it has less emphasis on free-roaming compared to GTA. However, for a more open-world experience with female characters, "Assassin's Creed III: Liberation" is also worth considering, though it has a more structured gameplay style.