How can an ugly dude get with a decent girl?

no one is ugly!!!!! They all just are different. There are no two people exactly alike. This being said, no one can be ugly. if you still think that you are ugly, show the girl how you feel, show her you personality, show her how awesome you are. if she says no than she is one mean girl. try someone else, she is not good enough for you. never give up hope!!!!!! There is someone out there!!!!