Why did nene urge nnaemeka to write to his father about there plans in the story marriage is a private affair?

Nene urged Nnaemeka to write to his father about their plans because she believed it was important to communicate openly and honestly with family, especially regarding significant life decisions like marriage. She understood that Nnaemeka's father held traditional views and that addressing the situation directly could help mitigate any potential conflict. By writing to his father, Nnaemeka could express his love for Nene and seek his father's understanding, thereby fostering a dialogue that might bridge their differing perspectives on marriage.