How can you prove your suspicions if you believe your boyfriend is cheating if you can't check on him or call his cell phone due to his job?

Check over his credit card/gasoline /phone receipts. Ask him how his workday was. Check his clothing for stains/perfume.

If you suspect that he is going out publicly with another woman, blithely mention to him one day that a friend or yours saw him with this woman in public. Keep your tone light and conversational. He may admit to having been in public with this woman, afraid that someone really did see them together.

If you feel your suspicions are well grounded, I would suggest confronting him with the affair.

have him followed, hire a detective - use your instincts..they are free and usually correct...

He already knows I suspect him, and he is extremely careful. His credit card, cell bill, ect. goes straight to his office. He drives out of town alot with his job,and can't be followed,as he drives to pretty remote areas, and he would instantly know if he was being followed. He's also very careful to not leave anything in his wallet , pockets ect.

I'd say to him on returning from a job. Sorry honey, I'm leaving, sick of your lies and dishonesty. You can do better. The fact is he will never own up to it so put yourself out of your misery and move on. It's hard but you will thank yourself in the long run. If you are suspecting it, you're gut is telling you something, listen to it.............................Take it from me..I've been through it..There is someone out there for you, just believe in that..There is better..

Quoting the last post:

Sounds like you already know the answer.

It's hard to caught a cheater especially when you try to plan it. But I believe no matter how sneaky the cheater is, some evidence will still left out. Cheaters won't win forever, because sooner or later the truth will come out from the surface.

Look at your relationship: is it what you truly want? Do you have the best, loving person you can imagine in your life? Are you your best self with him? And, as Dear Abby says, would you be better off without him? If so, skip all the investigation and move to the heart of the matter. It sounds like he has already left you.