Can you put coconut oil on a sore clitors?

It would be much better for your body to use a simple A&D Ointment, like used on babies' bottoms. It will provide a barrier over the area while helping any abrasions to heal. Make sure to gently wash and rinse the area first. You should also have a stern talking-to with your sexual partner-- women do not have to be hurt to have good sex. The clitoris is extremely sensitive and can be injured.