Why does it feel like all guys out there are all the same and only want sex?

This impression is created mostly by movies and bad experiences. There are a lot of shallow guys who only want sex, but there are also a lot of real guys who are looking for a lifetime relationship. Many women fail to attract the latter however because their style is pointed towards the shallow side.

Think about what kind of guy you are looking for and where you might be able to meet that kind of guy. If you are looking for a romantic and caring guy in a bar or night club, your chances are slim. If you dress up like a slut and hide your real face behind makeup, your chances get even worse.