What are you looking for in a guy?

Someone I can be friends with, are comfortable with and don't feel afraid. Someone who is "safe". A man who is comfortable with me being me, can feel good as a man and not threatened. Someone who is easy-going like me and not prone to argue a lot. I want a man who is charming, aggressive but not to the point of being domineering. Funny, wise, willing to teach and learn. I look for honesty, not judgmental or accusatory. I look for a person who is independent but not too proud. I am looking for a guy who has a spiritual side, confident, hard-worker, great personality that makes him sexy and handsome.