ANSWER: Bisexuals, gays and lesbians are born this way, it is something that cannot change just like your colour of your eyes, you can fake it, but on the inside your still the same.
However.
A lot of bisexual girls either
A. are not really bisexual (this occurs a lot in high school as a trend) often these girls will only kiss other girls, but not date or go further than this. If you do not have physicall, sexual and emotional attraction to a female, and wouldn't like her the same way you like a man, then you may not be bisexual.
B. some girls end up realising that they are completely lesbian, but only thought they were bisexual as a way to feel better about themselves. Often one is ashamed of their sexuality, or pressured into being "normal" and likeing men. when they grow up they are able to feel more comfortable of their sexual feelings.
ANSWER : Some people say they are bisexual, but really it's just because they can't admit that they're gay, but they do agree later on that they're gay. This might not be you. There might be real bisexuals somewhere.
There is some opinion that bisexual people can have some success in a marriage. People who claim to be bisexual say that they can 'play the straight' for a while, but not for ever.
ANSWER: Sexuality is more fluid and complex than most people would like to admit and can change over time (though changing it on purpose is a different matter). Most people who identify as bisexual by their early 20s remain so over their lifetimes, though some may drift along the scale in either direction to the point where they choose to identify as gay or straight (those identifies can change as well...and many straights and gays are closeted bisexuals as well because there is a lot of pressure in society to "pick a side already").
Also, sexuality appears to be a result of interaction between environment and Biology (half of the twins of gay people are also gay and their genes are the same), but that doesn't make it a choice...not that it should even matter if it's a choice because it would still be a perfectly moral one...consent is the issue that should be looked at and what makes being gay or bi or poly ok as opposed to other things like pedophilia (also 50% biology according to my abnormal psych professor) and bestiality.
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