What adjective would describe unoka?

Unoka, the father of the protagonist Okonkwo in Chinua Achebe's "Things Fall Apart," can be described as "effeminate." He is characterized by his lack of ambition and failure to adhere to traditional masculine ideals, often prioritizing music and storytelling over hard work and success. This trait leads to his disdain among the community and significantly shapes Okonkwo's own worldview and drive for success.