What is the name of the actor and the one man autobiographical show where an old balding gay Jewish man describes his life growing up in New York (I believe) around the theatre?

The actor you’re referring to is Charles Busch, and the one-man autobiographical show is titled "The Tale of the Allergist's Wife." In this show, Busch portrays a character reflecting on his experiences growing up in New York's theatrical scene as an old balding gay Jewish man. The performance blends humor and poignant moments, highlighting his unique perspective on life and art.