If a narcissist agrees to couples counseling is there any hope for change?

No they will just waste you time and try to apease you. I personally had wasted time & energy going to 3 different marriage counseling, after 20 years of emotional abuse, lies, spent money like no tommorow. Had an affair, and still he is the victim. Get your counselor to educate you right away & protect your children Ladies , run, run, run- Now going thru Divorce that is another Horror. Plan Ahead and make sure Your divorce attorney deals with FAMILY LAW and knows how to deal with a narcissist. I have gone thru 3 attorneys , look up your legal bar assiociation for lawyers that have complaints, another sign Thief they are out for the money$$$$$