Who stopped apothied?

The term "apotheid" seems to be a typographical error or a misunderstanding. If you meant "apartheid," it was primarily ended through a combination of internal resistance in South Africa, led by figures like Nelson Mandela and Desmond Tutu, and international pressure, including sanctions and diplomatic efforts. The formal end of apartheid came with the first multiracial elections in 1994, which marked a significant transition towards democracy in the country.