If you rejected her you need to think about why you acted that way. For example, have you been hurt in the past and are afraid of getting hurt again? Or is it possible that you have feelings for her, that are deeper than you ever anticipated having and you don't know how to deal with them? Either way you need to clear your own thoughts so that you can think about how to go forward. Once you have done this you will be able to reevaluate your feelings for this girl. If you still like her, I would suggest talking to her. Even if you are afraid she may not want to. If you shared a deep connection with her, chances are there is still hope however, you will have to be honest with her about your feelings so that she can understand your behaviour. Your question seems more like a statement so I'm not too sure what you are actually asking. If you are asking why you would reject someone that you still like then I think I kind of answered that in the above (although there could be many reasons!) If you want to know how to deal with it then I think the first step is accepting that you cannot change what has happened in the past, you can only learn from it. You should never be afraid to fall in love (which is basically the reason of both being afraid of getting hurt, or having stronger feelings than you know how to deal with). Try not too rush things so that you can build trust with this person, that way you will know if it will be safe enough to let these emotions run freely. If you take your time and don't go rushing in then things will flow naturally at their own pace, which makes it all a little bit less scary. I would agree that you definitely like her, enough to post a question on the internet about it anyway. No one will be able to answer this question for you properly as you are the only one who knows what is going on inside your head. As I've already said the first thing is to decide WHY you rejected her before you think about how you feel about her. I hope things turn out as you wish xxx you probaly hurt her, but theres no harm in asking her back out, just say it was a mistake i didn't mean to reject you want to go out :-)
Gsx<3
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