Why do I have to always wait for my friends?

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2026-05-06 11:50

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If you are waiting for your friends because they are constantly late, it's because they may not know the correct time or same time as you; are late on purpose to seem cool; is perhaps in their nature, or they just don't want to be the first one showing up.

If you mean it in a different sense, please explain.

It's more like they always take 20 minutes at their locker and then they except me to wait for them and then they sit down with me and then they say they have to go someone where else anyway and they always wait for each other ad help people that they have nothing to do with and then they want me to wait for them which I have been for the last year and it's very annoying. And then I always ask them instead of talking at the locker they should come sit down with me to talk but they don't and then it's my fault if they don't sit with me because Yeah.

Let's say to sum it up, I always wait for them and never get anything back. And I'm sick and tired of it and we have been friends for 2+ YEARS

ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE!

Someone told me years ago to remember this rule: "You get the behaviour you reward, you discourage the behaviour you tax". If you wait, they know you will wait & so.... they are comfortable making you wait, because you rewarded it last time by waiting. If you give in every time a girl cries, you will have a controlling, manipulative person on your hands that KNOWS how to cry!

If you let someone owe you money & listen to their excuses, they will pay everyone else & let Mr nice guy wait!

okay so do I sit with them or not. Because I had a go at them the other day. And sort got really angry and just yelled.

People who use you are not your friends.....

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