How do you love a man with kids?

its easy. you should love all your kids and your husband. even if your kids are bad. its easy. loving your husband is a sight but loving your kids is like magic. you might not get that part. lol Answer I am understanding the question to mean, "how do you love a man who has kids with a different relationship/marriage." If you really love a man you will - or should - love his children also. They are, after all, part of him. If your love is strong/deep enough for that man it will not matter that he has kids and you will love and accept them as you do him. If you cannot do that, then the love is not that strong to begin with.