If you are an orphan and you get married does your husband or wife live with you or do you stay in an orphanage?

Well, usually people, not only orphans, would prefer to get married after they are stable enough to provide themselves with there own home and are old enough to. If you're young enough to still have to stay in an orphanage, I highly recommend you not getting married. Unless your husband/wife wants to provide the house and income.