You can use any penis-like object with no sharp edges or points: people have used cucumbers, candles, even mop handles. Some guidelines:
Start with a bowel movement.
If it hurts, you're doing it wrong.
Thoroughly clean whatever you use before and after (or use a condom).
The anus itself is reasonably tough. The tissue inside the rectum isn't. NEVER put anything rough or sharp up there (including a fingernail). Don't use anything made of glass or brittle plastic.
Make sure you can hold onto whatever you're using. Believe it or not, it's possible for a dildo to slide all the way in, unless it has a wide base.
The anus does not produce its own lubricant, so you will need something like petroleum jelly, KY cream, etc.
Don't rush things -- start small: the idea is to learn to relax the sphincter muscle. Once again, if it hurts, you're doing something wrong.
Blood in the stool can indicate a serious injury. Be prepared to tell the doctor --honestly --what you've been doing. Don't worry. They've heard it all before.
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