How do you start comunication?

one thing are you from the UK? if not, this wont make any sense.

you know when people meet they always say nice day,

or talk about the weather, this is comon because people don't want to go to far,

like, when you know your not going to see that person again, you don't want to ask

there name or where they live, that's just weird.

so stay with somthing simple, at first like the weather,or just hi.