How do you get your wife to be interested in you sexually?

First of all you can't let on that you are trying to "get her in the mood" You need to "not want it" and seem to just want to please her and cator to her with out appearing to want anything in return. give her a gift for now reason (a flower from the yard is fine, it's just the thought that matters to her) out of the blue tell her how lucky you feel to have her and you would be lost without her.