What if you like a girl who is in another state?

I feel if you are looking for a very long term relationship, this is not a bad thing. It just all depends on how you are and how she is. Is this person committed? Can you trust her? Can you handle the distance? Would this girl be willing to move in the future so you two could be together? If you like her a lot you can try a long distant relationship, however I can not stress enough that distance is a very big issue. Remember a heart can't grow with an absent lover. Things can work out however long distant relationship only work out for very mature people who are more into working or school. This is from people I know and experience. To answer your question, I just have to say. Do what makes you both happy, more importantly if you love her what makes her happy?