What do you do when your strict parents find out you have a boyfriend?

Your parents shouldn't have had to "figure out" you were dating. If you have nothing to hide then you should have brought your boyfriend home to meet them. You may still be able to save yourself on this one, if you ask your parents if you could invite your boyfriend over for dinner. They have a right to know who you are going out with because they love you and want the very best of things in life for you. You may think you know all the answers in the love department, but my dear, you haven't even hit the tip of the iceberg yet. Be sure your boyfriend is polite, dressed in a clean shirt and jeans or whatever young guys are wearing these days (hygiene is at the top of the list) and makes some effort to talk to your parents. Parents don't like rude boys that are too secretive about themselves, or boys that don't bother to come to the door to pick their daughter up, but sit outside revving up their car engine or honk until you come out. Consider yourself lucky that you have parents that care who you are going out with just want you to be safe and happy. Good luck Marcy