How do you leave someone you love?

I have no idea what your circumstances are, but unless he is married, then there is no reason you can't work something out. If you really love each other as much as you say there is always a solution to every problem. I have known a couple where the woman only had a year to live (she was young) and her and her boyfriend loved each other so much they had the big wedding, reception, went on a honeymoon and she actually lived for 15 years. Love can heal a lot of things. Sit down with this person you love and have a heart-to-heart talk and see if you can't figure out something. If either of you are married and you have good reason to be unhappy with your partners then it's best to leave them and both of you stay together. Good luck Marcy