How do you let go after having an affair?

This will be up to the married man whether or not he loves his mistress. If this married man love his mistress and the affair is discovered, it will be hard for him and his mistress. But because of the circumstances he have, he will force himself not to let it bother him. He might loose a lot if his wife wants divorce.

there are married man that will set aside his feelings about his mistress but you can be sure that when his alone, things will hit him like how wonderful it was when they are together. He will think of special date, day or even month because those times was fun and different. We can only guess because no married man will love to talk about his life with the mistress.