What is a spell for someone to loose memories of a loved one?

I'm sorry to say there really is no magic spell to forget someone, or to help you to get through the death or lose of someone. Magic is not a shortcut to an end.

Much as the pain of this time is hard to go through, the human brain and heart can not be rushed through the process.

Some people seem to get over emotional upheaval faster than others, but we all need to take the time we need to take.

Time alone will heal the hurt and taking that time is important to you for your future emotional well being.