How do you convince a girl to go out with you?

just don't!! leave her alone and let her decide when she wants to have sex with you, it's her choice not yours. you would do this if you genuinely cared for her and if you dont, and this is all you want, end the relationship before you hurt her even more and take something special to her. she is not an object, no woman is. there are many who are willing to have sex with men easily so until you are looking to settle down i suggest you look out for those sorts instead of harassing young women like your poor, sensible girlfriend.